Wednesday, December 28, 2016

Oh the Naughty Girls Get it Good.

We joked this was the Christmas of ButtLovin'.
I'm sure you will see some of those goodies as well soon.
However, it seems it was a mask extravaganza too!

We like to play with masks.
I have few different varieties, and Husband decided to add to the collection.
Three are leather and in fun colors.
They were handmade for us.
I will get the card and put a link up for where he procured them.
Don't judge me, I love the smell of leather.
I also sort of have a thing for the feel of it.
Maybe it's throwback to my metal/goth days, lol.
Then, there's this lovely little furry fox number, a fun addition to my kitty ones.
Why not add to the pet play?
I am told a fox tail may be arriving soon too. 😉

Saturday, December 24, 2016

Tis the Season of Giving



I actually brought this up to my husband yesterday.
I suggested that we begin new evening traditions after work.
We usually have dinner, have a few cocktails, watch a movie, fall asleep on the sofa, and realize we have to be up way too early. It's becoming habit.
Ugh!
I thought maybe we could give something new a try.
Maybe we could slip in some fun time between the usual.
It doesn't have to be a marathon play session every time we go for it.
We have far too large a collection for sexual enjoyment to be idly sitting in our office/playroom gathering dust, including that damn swing!
Even if it's giving each other a massage one night, I want to increase our sensual interaction.
I don't want to become a couple that spirals down the road to celibacy, or become bored with each other. That's just not us, and we've been so busy and exhausted with our schedules, I could see it eventually going in that direction.
Noooooo!

I mean, we used to be the couple that started each morning, no matter how early, with some sort of hanky-panky, be it oral, full on f*$k, spanking session, or something!
We're the couple that for every holiday usually exchange at least one kinky gift. We even exchange Great Pumpkin fun on Halloween. 
By the way, I saw those packages arriving this week in all of that black plastic wrap!
Plus, it's fun for me (us) to try all sorts of new items and situations because I love putting scenarios that I have not seen in other erotic novels in mine. And afterwards, I can always say, "Yes, you can do that with your partner!" 

So how coincidental was it that the Kinkly weekly newsletter arrived in my inbox this morning with the same topic covered?
Pleasure is the gift that keeps on giving.
I think Christmas morning should begin with a Bang...or a blow.
Play Kiss me under the mistletoe...and be strategic!
I guarantee your day will be all the better for it.


Tuesday, December 20, 2016

Lubricant Tales and a Free Sample

Let's face it. Sometimes, no matter how excited you are to get down and dirty, your body may react otherwise. You may need a little help to ease into the situation.
Or, it may be a scenario where lube is absolutely vital to smooth transitions.
*cough*buttstuff*cough*
 Different tools, implements, also require a little help at times, especially if they are larger or oddly shaped, or depending on the materials they are made from.
Then, there's just the fact that as we ladies age, we have, at times, issues lubricating ourselves.

There are so many options out there now as well.
Lubes that desensitize for longer play.
Lubes that warm.
Lubes that tingle.
Flavored lubes.
It's a virtual lube buffet!

We always sample and test out new ones.
One thing I will tell you is that I am not a fan of lube launchers.

In theory, it's a great idea.
You're able to apply liberal amounts of lube deeper, and thicker, than fingers perhaps can all in one shot.
However, in my experience, and you may want to graze over this.
Within minutes, my stomach flopped, ached, cramped, and I was clenching my tail and had to cease all play for the night. For me, this was just a thick enema. I can't handle that much in the back door.
Lesson learned.
And a night of embarrassment accomplished.

We are huge fans of Astroglide and K-Y, which are popular brands, and can be found virtually anywhere. In fact, I've bought tons of samples for my signings to give away.
If you want to give a lube a try, I will suggest Astroglide for sure.
In fact, if you go to their website, you can pick from selected products of theirs, and they will send a free sample to your door.
Astroglide Free Sample





Swag and Promotional Packs


In my tiny realm of erotica/BDSM readership, I am known for my use of plugs in my stories, along with many other implements...
and maybe my actual plug collection.
I am attending my first live signing next year at an erotic writers' convention.
I have often joked that I should give away butt plugs when people buy my paperbacks.
The joking gave way to actually considering it.
I have been picking up usual author 'swag' such as pencils, rack cards, business cards, stickers, candy.

Mr. JLE keeps asking, "I thought you were going to give away butt plugs?"

So, I have been trying to find reputable places to find nice anal plugs for a wholesale, bulk price, that won't kill me if I were to give them away if people bought say two or three of my books.

I would like them to be aesthetically pleasing, and maybe even one I could stand behind...or have up the behind! Depending on my searches, I may offer different implements of pleasure depending on the novel and package I put together.

So my search is on for them so that I can provide Kinky Collections! 
Erotic Reads, Deliciously Deviant Langiappe!

Although, it won't be one of these...
Though adorable and even though the feathery puff removes, lube just makes them a gooey mess.
You have to be delicate when cleaning them up.


Sunday, December 4, 2016

Get to know your blogger.

Hi. I'm your friendly neighborhood purveyor of smut.
I started this blog to promote my books, but realized it would be much better suited  to answer questions, educate, and have fun.
I write erotica, BDSM, kink, romance.
I live it too. I think that gives my books a little something special.
I realized that this blog would be beneficial for so many after spending time in groups on Facebook, and women didn't think what they have read in books could really happen.
I kept voicing, "But it can." "Yes, I've done that." "We own those." Etc.
I don't hide behind a pen name.
What you see is what you get.

Besides that, I just generally believe in pursuing life.
Given the chance, I try just about anything.
I have been in roller derby.
I was a burlesque performer from 2007 until 2013 when I turned 40.
I used to do some fetish/alt/goth modeling too.
I have competed in fitness competitions in both the Fitness & Physique Categories. That I haven't given up on yet, but it takes tons of time, discipline, and of course, money, so I have to plan that more precisely. That being said, I'm a huge fitness buff.
I truly want to be a free spirit, but I'm a worry wart.
I judge, but don't want to, so I'm working on that.
I rant, but then regret it.
I bottle things up and explode when the last straw is broken.
I am nowhere near perfect. I never claimed to be.
I want to inspire others to try what they dream of, pursue dreams.












Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Couples Massager

I actually received a question about one of these this week.
Luckily, I have experience with couples massagers.
In case you aren't familiar, these were the type I was asked about.




Two popular brands are We-Vibe and Lelo.
(Click the links to see their varieties.)
Hell, I've even seen a version at Walgreens!

These are remote controlled, and now, some can even be controlled by an app on your smartphone too.
Here's the fun thing about these little guys: you wear them during sex.
Yes!
Double the pleasure, double the fun.

It gets slipped on inside of the lady parts. Of course, the outside is for clitorial action, the inside for G fun. Then, your man can come on in to enjoy the vibrations, and you, while he controls the speed of the vibe.
(I would recommend a little lube for smooth entry of both. 😉)


These can also be worn alone, and your partner can control your vibrations whether it be in the next room or out at dinner or out shopping or another state. Get your freak on.


However, it is more fun together.

Monday, November 28, 2016

An automatic spice up.


Things don't always have to be kink in the bedroom.
Sure, we love that too, but it's not involved 100% of the time.

Lingerie.
It's such an easy way to spice up a night, yet how many times do we wear it?
I'm guilty.
I have a drawer full, sweet to raunchy. Some even still has tags on it.
I couldn't tell you the last time I put some on though.
Why not?
I couldn't even tell you, lol.

This is especially fun for those of us in relationships that have been over a decade.
Let's face it. We become complacent. Even our bra and panties become more mundane.
We know we don't always match.

Lingerie automatically makes you feel sexier, even just a fancy new bra and panty set.
Your mate will know it's time for some action.
It's a subtle way to initiate the romance, sexy time, and at times, your man/woman will like that.
Why should they always initiate?
That alone is a tiny way to spice things up.
Plus, you will just look hot as hell. 


It doesn't have to be this intricate either. This would be for more 'play' time rather than just a night of nookie, but hell if that isn't fun too.
So, why not pull out some special lingerie tonight?
It's like unwrapping a present, and you're the gift, but you both get the pleasure.




Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Naked Thanksgiving!

I guess this would be more under the Candy part of me, as I find it sweet.

A friend of mine and her husband have a Thanksgiving Tradition:
Naked Thanksgiving!
Yes, they spend the day celebrating at their home naked.
I thought this was a fab idea.
I told her that I would probably wear an apron while cooking because, let's just say that I've had some incidents cooking naked before, hahaha.

And as I was looking for a new apron online, I've discovered that naked cooking is apparently becoming a trend!

(not me, lol)
Meet one of the naked chefs!


I've even found a youtube channel, Cooking Naked, as well, and I thought this recipe may be fitting for after Thanksgiving. 


Perhaps, this holiday tradition could become all the rage?
So, tomorrow morning after I wake, get the fire in the woodstove raging, and shower and apply some makeup, I may just go about our holiday in nothing but my knee high socks and my apron when needed.
It was 18 degrees here this morning! I need to have a wee bit of warmth before stripping down!

This may be me, but who cares!
Maybe I'll take pics and post them 😜

Hope you have a Happy (maybe naked) Thanksgiving!


Saturday, November 19, 2016

Sexy Fun Time.

Have you seen this?
How fun is that?
And how cute are their images?!


I had been thinking of outlining a fun Sex Challenge for the Holidays.
You've seen them.
Like this:

But dang, it seems like then it would become a chore.
That's when I stumbled onto that fun little Sex Position Generator.
Maybe when getting ready for sexy fun time, you could click this and try it out.
I also have a few of those dice games with an action and a body part.
Anywho, just some thoughts on spicing it up on the fly!


Friday, November 18, 2016

King of Kink! Al Daltrey's Pleasure, Pain Or Purpose Book 3: Purpose Release Blitz!

~ Release Blitz ~ 
Title ~ Purpose
Series ~ Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book Three
Author ~ Al Daltrey
Release Date ~ November 17, 2016
Genre ~ Erotica Romance
Life is many things, but one thing it isn’t, is predictable. At times, pain weighs heavily on the heart, and then…the sky clears, the ground shifts, and happiness and pleasure return.

Billie finally emerges from her emotional slumber. She learns that while David is gone,
it doesn’t mean that her life can’t have restoration. Unless, secrets from
her kinky past threaten the promise of a new future?

Jasmin decides to take a page from Billie’s book, and goes on a pilgrimage of her own.
Lessons learned on the Camino de Santiago will help frame her outlook on life.
Erotic encounters are never far behind.

Vicky fights the good fight against the cancer that has taken root in her body.
Andrew, for all his past discretions, stands by her every step of the way.
Together, the battle only makes them stronger.

Life is life, as the three best friends discover. It may not be easy…
but together they find renewed purpose.

Add to Goodreads TBR: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32732767-purpose
** Will send Buy Links as soon as I have them! **
These will be two of them when the book goes live
AMAZON UNIVERSAL LINK: https://getBook.at/AlDaltreyPPP3
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Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book One- Pleasure
Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book Two- Pain
By day I work in Marketing, which involves a fair amount of writing. Therefore, I never really had an interest to write for pleasure. When you do it all day, the last thing you want to do when you get home, is more writing. All the while, as my career progressed, so did my involvement in the BDSM lifestyle.
This interest in kinky sex started in my University years. Like most men, I loved meeting women, and especially the occasional one who didn't mind being tied up, or blindfolded, or spanked. All sex was great, but kinky sex was more exciting, more exhilarating, and more fulfilling.
Over the years I was lucky enough to meet my fair share of submissive women. And don't for a minute think these women were weak. Outside the bedroom they were confident, opinionated, gregarious and self-assured. However, inside the bedroom (so to speak) they wanted to feel the strong firm hand of a dominant man taking complete control.
Eventually I found the perfect partner, and am happily in a relationship.
One day, I flipped my laptop open, and to my surprise - I had an urge to write a BDSM story. Soon I had 20 pages, then 40, then 60. The novel that resulted was 'Testing the Submissive'. The response was overwhelmingly positive, and the reviews excellent - all of which motivated me to continue writing. 'A Condo with Two Views' is my second full length novel, with other projects in the works. If you decide to give any of my writing a try, I hope you enjoy it!

~ Al ~
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Thursday, October 27, 2016

A Little Silly FYI

It's been over two years, since I have lost padding.
In fact, my tush has gained padding over that time.
In the last few months, I have been resuming my old fitness regime, thus my booty is losing the fluff.
There is a definite increased sting as you lose fat on your a$$.
Just saying...
I forgot how that feels over the past few years.
I'm not complaining, just pointing out that the pain is escalated without any new toys!
;)


And I don't know about you, but it does!
Or if I am completely stressed out, being grabbed, bent over, bottom exposed and spanked on the spur immediately relieves some of my cranky, anxiety and stress.
It's only when I'm in the middle of cooking or bent with my head in the oven that I resist a bit...it's precarious, LOL.




Wednesday, October 5, 2016

Erotica E-book Bundle Giveaway

It's no secret that I write erotica novels.
I try to impart fun, advice, and sexy into each one in unique ways.
It's hard out there in the indie world.
In an attempt to find new readers, I am having a giveaway.
Basically what I am asking is that you purchase any one of my books (Ripped & Twisted, Candy & Kink, or The Surrender of Luella [Perchance to Dream Book One]) and leave a review on Amazon.
Then, leave a link to that review in the comments section of the video I have up on my Facebook Author's Page. (Link to follow below)
So far, there's only been on purchase so odds are good at the moment!

Next Wednesday night, I will randomly draw TWO winners from the links to their reviews on Amazon in the comments.
They will each receive gifted e-books from three of my listed authors, their choice, plus one direct to Kindle e-book of mine of their choosing.
In this way, I'm hoping to find new readers and help some of my fellow indie authors as well.

Reviews are critical, and if you enjoy reading one of our stories, we love reviews. If you didn't know, Amazon does not promote us, put us in newsletters, or in their search engines until we reach a certain amount of reviews. Plus, let's face it, sales are wonderful. What's $2.99 in the overall scheme of things for a work that someone has spent months to a year on to produce?

Follow the link to hear more!
And here are a few teasers from each of my books too.
Good Luck!


The Surrender of Luella (Perchance to Dream Book One)







Ripped & Twisted











Candy & Kink