Tuesday, November 29, 2016

Couples Massager

I actually received a question about one of these this week.
Luckily, I have experience with couples massagers.
In case you aren't familiar, these were the type I was asked about.




Two popular brands are We-Vibe and Lelo.
(Click the links to see their varieties.)
Hell, I've even seen a version at Walgreens!

These are remote controlled, and now, some can even be controlled by an app on your smartphone too.
Here's the fun thing about these little guys: you wear them during sex.
Yes!
Double the pleasure, double the fun.

It gets slipped on inside of the lady parts. Of course, the outside is for clitorial action, the inside for G fun. Then, your man can come on in to enjoy the vibrations, and you, while he controls the speed of the vibe.
(I would recommend a little lube for smooth entry of both. 😉)


These can also be worn alone, and your partner can control your vibrations whether it be in the next room or out at dinner or out shopping or another state. Get your freak on.


However, it is more fun together.

Monday, November 28, 2016

An automatic spice up.


Things don't always have to be kink in the bedroom.
Sure, we love that too, but it's not involved 100% of the time.

Lingerie.
It's such an easy way to spice up a night, yet how many times do we wear it?
I'm guilty.
I have a drawer full, sweet to raunchy. Some even still has tags on it.
I couldn't tell you the last time I put some on though.
Why not?
I couldn't even tell you, lol.

This is especially fun for those of us in relationships that have been over a decade.
Let's face it. We become complacent. Even our bra and panties become more mundane.
We know we don't always match.

Lingerie automatically makes you feel sexier, even just a fancy new bra and panty set.
Your mate will know it's time for some action.
It's a subtle way to initiate the romance, sexy time, and at times, your man/woman will like that.
Why should they always initiate?
That alone is a tiny way to spice things up.
Plus, you will just look hot as hell. 


It doesn't have to be this intricate either. This would be for more 'play' time rather than just a night of nookie, but hell if that isn't fun too.
So, why not pull out some special lingerie tonight?
It's like unwrapping a present, and you're the gift, but you both get the pleasure.




Wednesday, November 23, 2016

Naked Thanksgiving!

I guess this would be more under the Candy part of me, as I find it sweet.

A friend of mine and her husband have a Thanksgiving Tradition:
Naked Thanksgiving!
Yes, they spend the day celebrating at their home naked.
I thought this was a fab idea.
I told her that I would probably wear an apron while cooking because, let's just say that I've had some incidents cooking naked before, hahaha.

And as I was looking for a new apron online, I've discovered that naked cooking is apparently becoming a trend!

(not me, lol)
Meet one of the naked chefs!


I've even found a youtube channel, Cooking Naked, as well, and I thought this recipe may be fitting for after Thanksgiving. 


Perhaps, this holiday tradition could become all the rage?
So, tomorrow morning after I wake, get the fire in the woodstove raging, and shower and apply some makeup, I may just go about our holiday in nothing but my knee high socks and my apron when needed.
It was 18 degrees here this morning! I need to have a wee bit of warmth before stripping down!

This may be me, but who cares!
Maybe I'll take pics and post them 😜

Hope you have a Happy (maybe naked) Thanksgiving!


Saturday, November 19, 2016

Sexy Fun Time.

Have you seen this?
How fun is that?
And how cute are their images?!


I had been thinking of outlining a fun Sex Challenge for the Holidays.
You've seen them.
Like this:

But dang, it seems like then it would become a chore.
That's when I stumbled onto that fun little Sex Position Generator.
Maybe when getting ready for sexy fun time, you could click this and try it out.
I also have a few of those dice games with an action and a body part.
Anywho, just some thoughts on spicing it up on the fly!


Friday, November 18, 2016

King of Kink! Al Daltrey's Pleasure, Pain Or Purpose Book 3: Purpose Release Blitz!

~ Release Blitz ~ 
Title ~ Purpose
Series ~ Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book Three
Author ~ Al Daltrey
Release Date ~ November 17, 2016
Genre ~ Erotica Romance
Life is many things, but one thing it isn’t, is predictable. At times, pain weighs heavily on the heart, and then…the sky clears, the ground shifts, and happiness and pleasure return.

Billie finally emerges from her emotional slumber. She learns that while David is gone,
it doesn’t mean that her life can’t have restoration. Unless, secrets from
her kinky past threaten the promise of a new future?

Jasmin decides to take a page from Billie’s book, and goes on a pilgrimage of her own.
Lessons learned on the Camino de Santiago will help frame her outlook on life.
Erotic encounters are never far behind.

Vicky fights the good fight against the cancer that has taken root in her body.
Andrew, for all his past discretions, stands by her every step of the way.
Together, the battle only makes them stronger.

Life is life, as the three best friends discover. It may not be easy…
but together they find renewed purpose.

Add to Goodreads TBR: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/32732767-purpose
** Will send Buy Links as soon as I have them! **
These will be two of them when the book goes live
AMAZON UNIVERSAL LINK: https://getBook.at/AlDaltreyPPP3
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Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book One- Pleasure
Pleasure Pain or Purpose: Book Two- Pain
By day I work in Marketing, which involves a fair amount of writing. Therefore, I never really had an interest to write for pleasure. When you do it all day, the last thing you want to do when you get home, is more writing. All the while, as my career progressed, so did my involvement in the BDSM lifestyle.
This interest in kinky sex started in my University years. Like most men, I loved meeting women, and especially the occasional one who didn't mind being tied up, or blindfolded, or spanked. All sex was great, but kinky sex was more exciting, more exhilarating, and more fulfilling.
Over the years I was lucky enough to meet my fair share of submissive women. And don't for a minute think these women were weak. Outside the bedroom they were confident, opinionated, gregarious and self-assured. However, inside the bedroom (so to speak) they wanted to feel the strong firm hand of a dominant man taking complete control.
Eventually I found the perfect partner, and am happily in a relationship.
One day, I flipped my laptop open, and to my surprise - I had an urge to write a BDSM story. Soon I had 20 pages, then 40, then 60. The novel that resulted was 'Testing the Submissive'. The response was overwhelmingly positive, and the reviews excellent - all of which motivated me to continue writing. 'A Condo with Two Views' is my second full length novel, with other projects in the works. If you decide to give any of my writing a try, I hope you enjoy it!

~ Al ~
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