Sometimes, you're just not in the mood.

And you know what?

That's okay.

You can be a highly sexual being, who loves kink, and it does not mean you are turned up 24/7, seven days a week. It's completely normal to not feel like having sex, of any sort from time to time.

Stress, health, fatigue, or just blah's are only a few factors that contribute to this.

And your partner has to recognize that.

It happens.

As corny as it sounds, when that happens to me, the best thing my partner does is stops, and just is affectionate with me.

Cuddles, hugs, a soft kiss on the head, or just holds me.

You can be intimate and express your connection during those times without the pressure to perform.

I don't want this blog to be all the best points of sex.

Sometimes, I will point out the true everyday 'stuff.' 

Because life is not perfect, but we can make it the best that it can be for us, including our intimate relationships.

Love & Joy,

JLE