Thursday, March 31, 2016

Spanking Paddle (1) - Bottoms Up!

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I thought we'd start with a wooden paddle.
It looks a little menacing.
It sounds menacing when it makes impact.
Those holes? They make the 'thwack' sound a little louder.
If delivered with enough force, yes, you can feel the edges of the circles on your skin...
even leave little imprints...or marks that last a few days.
There is a good sting and pain to it. This is more likely due to the fact that there is not much 'give' with a wooden paddle, or snap that more flexible rubber, leather, vinyl paddles have, even though this one cuts wind resistance down. You are more likely to reach your limit with fewer blows than other paddles too. Let's face it, it's a wooden paddle!

You can achieve a good bruising too, depending on how hard you and your partner play, the force they using in delivering your spanks, and the number of  strikes inflicted.
This guy also delivers a warming, burn when used lightly.

Granted, spankings are not incurred for punishment in my house, but this would be a great implement for it. Just the visual brought back too many memories of the nuns in grammar school for me!
Ours walked around with a paddle very much like this one.
Spanking in my house is for pleasure, and though I have had a bumbum that has been turned black and blue, even a little bit of cutting, I can see this wooden paddle used in both forms.

Of course, the pain induced also depends on which body part this paddle is used on. As always, body parts with a little more cushion will not feel as painful as those without. I find the actual butt cheeks are always that good pain (for me). Now, when the backs of the thighs come into play, the pain increases. And a whack on the breasts, just depends, as with force, angle, and so on.

I put up a link to Amazon,  but search around. We procured ours at our friendly neighborhood adult store. 

I'm giving it 5 plugs due to its versatility, quality, and fun.

Tuesday, March 22, 2016

Just a swingin'

Guess what good little girls get?
Or maybe it's bad girls?
Dirty girls?
Naughty girls?
Or just loved girls?!

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That's right!
I believe our office/guest room is slowly becoming a kink room.
Husband said, "It's for your red room."
I said, "Screw a red room. Let's paint it purple and black!"
I foresee hours of fun and giggles.
It should be fun to review this item!
After we clear the space...
I am thinking of digging out the stripper pole too from being stored in the crawl space.
If we're going to have a fun room, we might as well go all out, no?

Monday, March 7, 2016

That time I was acquainted with a Dominatrix.

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Well over a decade ago, I began my journey into the life of kink.
I mean, I had read the Anne Rice Sleeping Beauty books. I had read some de Sade and other books available at the time that I could find in a library or big book store.
Yes, this was before Amazon and Kindle could fill us with millions of erotic tales.
I was heavy into the Goth scene and sported tons of leather, vinyl, black, lace, boots, corsets.
I had an inkling of what I was heading to, but was not sure where or how to go about my hidden little desires and fantasies.
Luckily, I had begun dating this guy (hubs) who had a perverted, twisty side too.

It was the earlier days of the emergence of the Neo-Burlesque scene.
I was fascinated, and years later, I would finally enter that stage and performed for quite a number of years. However, I digress.

I remember going with my partner and watching the gritty, punk, fetished out show.
We began seeing them regularly and began small conversations among the girls.
Lo and behold, one of the glorious amazon ladies was also...
a Dominatrix.
I had never met such a person before. I was completely enthralled with all she told us.
My now hubs actually did a photo shoot with her for her website at the time.
She had a complete dungeon.
She had stockades, cock stocks, spanking horses, was deep into medical devices and needle play. I remember the first time I saw pictures of a penis that she had basically Jacob Laddered with needles.
Over a decade ago, I also had no idea about anal hooks, urethral dialators?!
Whips, chains, nipple clamps, cock cages, sensory deprivation suits....
The list went on and on!

I had never known a person could make a living providing these services.
I also adore that someone is so free, unhindered, and not hung up on trips of what anyone's sex life, fetishes or desires should be.
It made me want to open up more.
I thought about being a webcam girl. I wanted to make fetish clothing and accessories. 
Personally, I'm not into handing out punishments, being the dominant, or the sado side of play, but I still am intrigued by those who do, and love to watch.
(And sometimes I do admit that I like to give spanks besides receive, lol)

She did demonstrations as fetish events, so I got to see her in action with rope bondage and paddlings.
I immediately wanted to up our game of bedroom recreation!
I mean I had read books for years, but had never witnessed so much or had first person knowledge as explanations. Hence, my own research began.
Perhaps this is why I like to use different bedroom scenarios from what is usually found in other erotica/BDSM books. I love the different, have a propensity for the twisted and depraved, and perhaps want to introduce more people to creative ways to spice up and explore their sex lives.
Real people do participate and live these lifestyles.
It's a shame that we are meant to feel ashamed about it or hide what we enjoy.

I followed her on the web for a while. She was in some fetish films too. 
I recently did a search, and I see she is still around and offering her services and sessions, including tons of Sissy humiliation, spanking, pegging, and more. 
And she still looks just as stunning as I remember her looking back then.
Maybe I'll throw her link in the Kinks & Links section. ;)

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Wednesday, March 2, 2016

Vintage Kink-o-rama

I love, love, love finding vintage erotica.
By the way you who are kinky, brush up on your classics.
Believe me, E.L. James has absolutely NOTHING on the Marquis de Sade master of Sadism.
Or Leopold von Sacher-Masoch! Surely you know what his name derived?!
Writing pain and torture combined with sex from the 1700's (de Sade) and 1800's (Sacher-Masoch), with surprising stories and techniques that will rival any story of today.
And yes, it goes further back than that even, especially in arts.
Get your learning on. =)

However, today, I'm going to share some great finds that are simply whimsical.
And for argument's sake, I'm skipping Bettie Page right now. Though, I adore her, we've seen her stuff a billion times. 

Pony Play, anyone?

If I had to guess I would say this is close to the 1920's, possibly the teens.

1940's Bondage

She's the Domme here.

That's one way to mark your territory!

Fun objectification

She's a little tied up
Interesting book from 1955

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Returning the favor

I put this one in simply because, Holy Hell if that doesn't look like me when I had brown hair!

Puppy Play

Victorian Fetish Postcard