Safe Sex Toy Disposal

Thought this would be a good time to repost this as more people may be spending a little more time with "themselves" and perhaps burning through some toys. 😊

 In random conversations, the subject of getting rid of old, broken, damaged toys came up.

This led me to do some research because a few years ago I had heard about a company that did a "Recycle your Rabbit" Day.

Lo and behold, I came across this site:

Sex Toy Recycling.

The Sex Toy Recycling process works like this: You send your unwanted sex toy to STR (email them and they'll send you a Tyvek pouch).
But don't be a nasty skank, wash it before you send it to them please.
They then sterilize and process it. Plastics, metals and batteries are recycled as needed for non-toy purposes.

The STR website says: "We then use a patent-pending process similar to that used to recycle athletic shoes into rubber surfaces for basketball courts. The rubber and silicone is ground up, mixed with a binding agent, and remolded into new toys. For sanitary and safety reasons, each toy is then coated with a layer of new silicone. The result is a sex toy made of at least 95% post-consumer materials."

Your old faithful can live a new life and come again and again!

Til next time!

JLE

My YouTube Channel

My Amazon Author's Page
Jennifer Lassalle Edwards

Free Short Story I wrote on Literotica

Through the Ages

An aging Sub confides the story of her life to her nurse.

Links to my books: 
Ripped & Twisted

Universal Link: myBook.to/RippedandTwisted

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/mV72Op

Candy & KinK Book Links:

Universal Link: myBook.to/CandyandKink

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/4AgRQK

PTD1 Links:
UniversalLink: http://getBook.at/JLETheSurrenderofLuella

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/bOrAvg

PTD2 Links:

http://mybook.to/JLEIllusins

https://www.books2read.com/u/mqpXNZ

Snow Globe Dreams - A Magical Short Story
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07RN17DK7/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i2

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Back and ready...

Maybe it's because I have seen so many people afraid to ask 

Because of judgement

Because of feelings of fear and self worth

Whatever

I feel this blog must be opened back up,a safe space of learning and education.

A free space to explore.

A space to not feel like a freak or outsider.

I don't know exactly, but ask, learn and be sure you will never be judged.

I will get you the best information possible as I know it or from those I know are experts of kink.
Oh there will be silly and fun too.

Til next time!

JLE

My YouTube Channel

My Amazon Author's Page
Jennifer Lassalle Edwards

Free Short Story I wrote on Literotica

Through the Ages

An aging Sub confides the story of her life to her nurse.

Links to my books: 
Ripped & Twisted

Universal Link: myBook.to/RippedandTwisted

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/mV72Op

Candy & KinK Book Links:

Universal Link: myBook.to/CandyandKink

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/4AgRQK

PTD1 Links:
UniversalLink: http://getBook.at/JLETheSurrenderofLuella

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/bOrAvg

PTD2 Links:

http://mybook.to/JLEIllusins

https://www.books2read.com/u/mqpXNZ

Snow Globe Dreams - A Magical Short Story
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07RN17DK7/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i2

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Repost - Sploshing you say?

I thought I would give a little repost of some of my old posts - especially when I see discussions on fetishes and bedroom recreation on certain social media platforms where the said "experts" mangle the idea, aspects, terms, etc. It's wonderful to want to learn about variety in play, but may I recommend not trusting these so-called "Doms", "Alpha's" and such that want to play a role on the web, and try to woo women, but obviously have no clue what their talking about 😂 - maybe just read too many silly stories.
With that said, I've never claimed to be an expert, but I will tell you what I do know, experienced, or discussed with pro's in the LS over the years...much of which I also convey in my novels. Hey, experiences always create the best stories!
I have always wanted this to be a place to learn, which is why I had always done reviews of products that I have actually tested in real life, and to not be ashamed of what you enjoy; sex shouldn't feel guilty, but always should be safe, consensual, and fun.
So...on with Sploshing!

First published March 2, 2017.

Also known as Wet and Messy play (WAM).

Most commonly it deals with food play, but can involve other substances as well.

But have no fear, we are not talking about bodily fluids here! Those festishes are a completely different arena.

Think shaving cream as a pie to the face...or bum.

Sitting on cakes. 

Pouring syrup on a woman, clothed or naked.
It's more the visual aspect for some parties, for others it is the feeling of the sticky, gooey, well, mess.
Normally, it is not followed with sex, although it can be, but for the most part, the people with this kink don't look for intercourse. Yes, there may be two people getting messy, but usually it's for one person's experience of the smell, texture, feeling of the food being spread, poured, dropped on them. For some, it's a humiliation aspect. For others, it's a tactile turn on.
In fact, if you're up for looking up some videos, the majority contain clothed women just getting down and messy!

Now, there are cross-over fetishes too, so what I have talked about is not a steadfast rule; more like basics, a general rundown, if you will.

Seems like these XXXtreme Rubber Sheets would be a good investment if you're into this sort of messy play, or for a cheaper version, perhaps just hit your hardware store for some of those cheap plastic sheets for painting!

Pies to the face are a big portion.

They say it's the feeling of the wet, sticky, slimy on the skin, or it could be the partner that enjoys watching it. I am ALL for food play, but my thing is then eating it or licking it off more than the act of destructing the food or watching it hit the skin, or the feel. Just seems like a good dessert gone to waste, hahaha. I'm completely down with each other getting messy in the mix too.

Remember the post I did on edible body paint and icing? This could be a fun way to start and see if you're into the messiness of sploshing...or just food play, in general.

You could also play around with honey, regular icing, chocolate before smashing a baked good with your ass. Who knows, maybe you'll find more pleasure in sitting on a cake than eating it!

It's also a good idea to avoid getting this stuff all up inside of your delicate lady areas - and shower afterwards. I actually covered that in the notes of Candy & Kink: A Tale of Confectionery Tale of Love & Tasty Perversions.

This add seems like a WAM-er's dream!

Another way to use marshmallow fluff!

They have a great idea, playing in the  tub.

I don't know if I would get this extreme, but to me it looks like added fun, and I love fun and even some laughs in the bedroom. Maybe it's time to up the ante from just food play!
Or if you're a true splosher (WAM), how about instigating a good food fight for some innocent kicks? 😜

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Everywhere Else

Safe Sex...Toy Disposal

In the random conversations, the subject of getting rid of old, broken, damaged toys came up.

This led me to do some research because a few years ago I had heard about a company that did a "Recycle your Rabbit" Day.

Lo and behold, I came across this site:

Sex Toy Recycling.

The Sex Toy Recycling process works like this: You send your unwanted sex toy to STR (email them and they'll send you a Tyvek pouch).
But don't be a nasty skank, wash it before you send it to them please.
They then sterilize and process it. Plastics, metals and batteries are recycled as needed for non-toy purposes.

The STR website says: "We then use a patent-pending process similar to that used to recycle athletic shoes into rubber surfaces for basketball courts. The rubber and silicone is ground up, mixed with a binding agent, and remolded into new toys. For sanitary and safety reasons, each toy is then coated with a layer of new silicone. The result is a sex toy made of at least 95% post-consumer materials."

Your old faithful can live a new life and come again and again!

Kinkly.com and Me

If you have not been there, may I suggest kinkly.com?

This site is simply amazing!

Straight up sex talk with a twist!

(to quote them)

It is highly educational, informative, funny.

There are lists of great blogs.

You can ask questions and have them answered by experts.

There are product reviews.

There are sexy stories.

Basically, it's the blog I dream to be when I grow up.

Which leads me to this.

They have me featured with a free excerpt of Ripped & Twisted!

And it's one that is not here on my blog!

How honored am I to be on that site?!

So, go give kinkly.com a visit, and while you are there, take a peek at my sexy free excerpt!

Clicky here!

Just a swingin'

Guess what good little girls get?

Or maybe it's bad girls?

Dirty girls?

Naughty girls?

Or just loved girls?!

That's right!

I believe our office/guest room is slowly becoming a kink room.

Husband said, "It's for your red room."

I said, "Screw a red room. Let's paint it purple and black!"

I foresee hours of fun and giggles.

It should be fun to review this item!

After we clear the space...

I am thinking of digging out the stripper pole too from being stored in the crawl space.

If we're going to have a fun room, we might as well go all out, no?

69

Since this is my 69th post, I thought it would be fitting to talk about what else?!

The 69 Position!

So, I hope you realize that we are going to get a little graphic.

After all, this is adult talk!

I would think the majority of us love oral, giving and receiving.

Isn't it better though when you don't have to take turns?

Mutual Oral Play & Satisfaction

When you can both achieve that blow up at the same time, or virtually the same time?

Collapse at the same time and cuddle up for the night, or morning, or afternoon.

You know what I'm talking about.

At least, I hope that you have all experienced having to stop pleasing your partner in order to squeeze your legs around your partner's head, ride their face and squeal with absolute delight.

Or when you feel as though you just can't take it anymore and try to pull away, but they grasp your ass tighter, holding you there until you cum all over them.

I meant that for men too, get on top and ride her face while you're going after that peach.

I know that woman on top is the go to, but ladies if you like thing perhaps a little rougher or to give up some control, let him get on top. Just make sure that you have a signal to let them know if they are getting down too hard, or you can't breathe because they are plowing you so deep in the heat of the moment.

It happens when they cannot see your face, lol. 

Don't freak out, I meant that to be humorous too.

Don't think that 69 has to be boring either.

Either one of you can be on top, hell, you can both be on your side.

You can roll around during...

I know there are ways for suspended 69, but I haven't made it that far yet!

Have you?

Tell, tell!

Have you tried a tiny bullet vibrator specifically made for oral?

They are not only for women. Give that a shot on your man.

If you dare, both have one for that specialist of positions...

69

Holy fireworks!

This is also a great time to play with flavored creams, edible paints. Add a little flavor to the dining situation. Ice or temperature toys can also come into play here too.

You do not have to spend your whole time in this position purely licking and sucking - though there is nothing wrong with that at all.

Also, don't be afraid to explore further while you're down there. Give a little lick and nibble to surrounding areas, thighs, legs, stomach, further down if you dare. Let your fingers do some walking too. You can always incorporate anal play into this scenario, on either part whoever is or may be into it. Or keep an implement for that nearby, ie. plug, dildo, beads, whatever.

If you haven't found a Valentine's treat for your loved one yet, perhaps a little 69 would be the perfect gift on Sunday.

And if you have never tried it, PLEASE give it a whirl...or two or three!

I am adding some links to informative sites just about this lovely, satisfying position.

There were some great ideas and information in these pages, and none of them are porn!

12 Tips to Make the 69 Position An Awesome Experience

How Do I 69 With a Guy?

The 69 Sex Position - Have you tried it?

Sixty Nine

Wikipedia - 69

Edible Body Icing

Who doesn't enjoy a sweet treat?

Who doesn't enjoy some playfulness and fun during sexy time?

In case you didn't know, I am obsessed with candy and kink.

It's so fun to mix the two as well.

You may have heard me mention jelly beans and the strategic placement that can give a whole new meaning to "licking the bean."

I thought I would search out some products specifically made for bedroom recreation.

Who knows, maybe you will find a little gift idea for the upcoming red bum heart holiday.

Link

This set from Amazon comes with three jars and a paint brush in chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry.

Some of the reviews from different stores on Amazon were mixed, but I didn't think they tasted bad at all. They were easy to apply, smelled good and had a good flavor and consistency. 

Link

Now, I have not tried this one yet, but it's available at our friendly neighborhood adult store.

Maybe I'm drawn to it because the packaging and brush are so pretty.

It looks like you could get more precision when using that brush on smaller, more pointy areas or even tighter spaces....

Let me know if you try it out. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks equals...

Implements of PLEASURE!

I have found some beauties lately that I would LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to try out.

I foresee a wish list to be given to someone soon...

although he says that he already thinks I own everything in the store.

Diamonds are a girl's best friend?

No, pleasure is!

Link - Ben Wa Cascade!

Increased libido and an enhanced sex life, you say?

I have a few passions. Fitness, writing, food, and of course, sex!

I mean, shouldn't we all enjoy sex?

And sometimes even mix food and sex, but that's another post.

Hence why I like to share anything to enhance that part of peoples' lives.

What if I told you that there is any easy way to increase libido?

Now, I know many of us do not need help in that department.

Perhaps, some of us just would like to have it heightened?

Fitness will do that.

No lie.

There's science to prove it.

And no, I do not mean that you have to get to this level to feel those effects either.

Although, I'm not complaining when I get to that level again...or if I found him hanging around my bedroom.

*points up*

Now granted, we know that feeling better about ourselves automatically increases our self-confidence which will make us a little less inhibited when our clothes fly off.

However, even twenty minutes of exercise will cause endorphins, testosterone, and circulation to our genitals to surge. 

I know you're seeing the word 'testosterone' there and thinking that the word is usually associated with men. However, that hormone works for women too! 

Let's just say it's an overall hormone of arousal in both sexes.

I have read one study that said: 

Physical activity was shown to prime a woman’s body for sexual activity by making her more sensitive to touch and increasing the efficacy of stimuli, while men experience improved sexual function and better orgasms.

(found in this article)

Maybe it's all of that additional blood rushing to those naughty bits!

Also, as you become more vigorous with the exercises, the length of time of your workouts, and include more days, well, the effects rise too.

Have you heard people discuss a runner's high?

I had a friend who was a long distance runner. He once told me about that experience, and that he also could orgasm while running. I did not believe him.

Then...as I became more involved in competing, as my workouts became more intense and longer, lo and behold, I found myself becoming randy during them?! It was crazy to believe that one could be on the verge of orgasm while exercising.

How about them apples?

It definitely made working out more fun, and when I started carrying a little something extra along in my bag. That's another post too.

So, maybe give twenty minutes a shot, and have a banana afterwards.
*wink*

All images are royalty free stock images.

Ease your way in...Kinktastic Knicknacks Massage Oil Candles

I realized while going through our supply of 'products' that many may be a little intimidating or even weird to some people who may not have delved that far in yet, but are still interested on a journey into the world of the different.

This is a little item that is sweet, erotic and can always lead to more fun.

I mean, who doesn't love a massage?

Even better, what's wrong with some oiled up skin on skin action afterwards?

Now, I will admit, we have not tried these yet, but we've bought a few, and they are ready and waiting. They seem fun, give ambiance, and play all in one. Doesn't this seem more entertaining than regular old massage oil? -which by the way, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that either.

We were able to pick ours up at our favorite adult store, but they are available all over online: anywhere from Fascinations (we shop this store locally & they have a fantastic rewards plan! Or you can shop with them online) Adam  & Evecarries these as well, and they always throw in free 'gifts' with purchases. Before the advent of easily obtained internet (yes, I'm talking dial up), I may have purchased videos/dvds from there quite a lot. *cough* Even Amazon has these, but I mean why not? They've begun carrying quite a selection of hardware and toys. I've even seen these available with Groupon.

Now, while these may seem quite 'vanilla', these could also be your introduction to a little subtle wax play, you kinky bastards.

As, we have not tried these yet, I will mention that whenever there is sport with additional 'condiments', we always protect our linens with a 'play' sheet that we don't mind getting stained. Because no matter how many products we've encountered that say they do not ruin your linens, half do. Better safe than stained.

And always, this will be posted up to the Kinktastic Knicknacks page with all other product reviews.

Here's one of the product descriptions that I've pulled for you all:

3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle

Candle melts into warm massage oil when lit!

Celebrate your skin and set the mood for an evening of bliss with these sensual massage oil candles! 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candles smell heavenly, and when lit the solid candle melts into warm and silky massage oil. Pour a little into your hand, then rub onto your lover’s skin for a steamy erotic massage that moisturizes and makes you both feel amazing. Choose from subtle Skinny Dip, fruity Guavalava, or sun-kissed Naked In The Woods fragrances.

• 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle
• Scented candle, massage oil, and moisturizer in one
• Made with 8 natural oils including soy, coconut, and jojoba
• Solid candle melts into massage oil when lit
• Feels warm and silky for incredible massage
• Includes Vitamin E
• Great for moisturizing
• Comes in a decorative 6.8oz tin
• Enough for many uses

Why lug along that bulky massage kit? With a 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle, you get everything you need to give a sultry, silky massage all in one easy product.

Start by lighting this sensual massage candle. In just moments, the solid candle will begin to melt into warm massage oil. Since this massage oil candle burns at lower temperatures than standard wax candles, it gives you just the right amount of heat for a wickedly warm massage. Then either pour the massage oil into your hand or spoon out a small amount. Apply this moisturizing formula anywhere to give your lover the massage of a lifetime.

3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candles are available in three unique fragrances. Choose Skinny Dip to subtly scent your massages with hints of vanilla and rose. Or awaken your arousal with the tropical, fruity scent of the Guavalava massage oil candle. Or turn your bedroom into an erotic hideaway with the citrus and cedar-accented Naked In The Woods scented massage oil candle.

Start with just one, or take home all three 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle scents for all your massage oil needs. Each comes in a decorative tin that makes travel easy. These massage oil candles also make great gifts for friends or lovers.

Ingredients:

Skinny Dip: Glycine Soja (Soybean Oil), Cocos Nucifera (Coconut Oil), Cannabis Sativa (Hemp Seed Oil), Prunus Ameniaca (Apricot Oil), Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba Oil), Persea Gratissimia (Avocado Oil), Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Phthalate-free fragrance with essential oils

Guavalava: Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil, Glycine Soja Oil, Parfum, Cannabis Sativa Seed Oil, Persea Gratissimia (Avocado Oil), Prunus Ameniaca Kernel Oil, Hexyl Cinnamal, Benzyl Benzoate, Linalool, Limonene, Benzyl Salicylate, Citronellol, Citral, Simmondsia Chinensis Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera Oil

Naked In The Woods: Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil, Glycine Soja (Soybean) Oil, Fragrance, Cannabis Sativa (Hemp) Seed Oil, Prunus Ameniaca (Apricot) Kernel Oil, Persea Gratissima (Avocado) Oil, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Tocopherol

Kinktastic Knicknacks

Yep, there's a new review up!

This time I talk about the Twilight Wand (Violet Wand).

So either visit the Kinktastic tab or click above to see what my thoughts are on this electrifying device.

Kinktastic Knicknacks - Where to begin?

I am buried in a sea of kinktastic knicknacks and unsure of where to begin?!

Should I start with something super tame so that those who are curious or are just beginning to delve into play have some fun and simple options, say like candles that when burning turn into massage oil? Or should I just go full balls to the wall and go with some hardcore options that are out there?

Maybe I should begin with some items that I've written about in my books?

One thing is for sure, all that I write about here and review here will be from actual experience.

I mean, how do you think I come up with scenes in my books?

(dum,dum,dum) <- sing that in your head!

So perhaps, I should remove any pictures of myself so this doesn't become awkward between us, hahaha. 

Also, everything will be my opinion of items and how they worked out for myself and my partner, meaning my husband. There may be times that I have guest bloggers as well. I'm sure there are things that we may not want to try. It could happen!

Sexual play discussion decisions are HARD because I want to talk about it all!

Feel free to chime in and let me know if there is something specific that you're curious about. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks

Through our random, dirty, yet funny, conversations, my husband and I have 'toyed' with the idea that I should add a section here for review and talk about sex toys.

He claims we own everything at the store we frequent, so they should be given the right to be tested and talked about...and he's always up for finding new scenes and ideas for my books.

*brownchickblackcow*

So from anal beads and plugs, cuffs, dildos, floggers and paddles, gag-balls to spreader bars, fetish wear, vibrators, and so much more, oh my!

We'll have chat and recommendations!

Perhaps some guest bloggers or guinea pigs?

Need I say that the Kinktastic Knicknacks section will be all adult content and conversation, so enter at your own risk...or satisfaction?

My hubs does...