Back and ready...

Maybe it's because I have seen so many people afraid to ask 

Because of judgement

Because of feelings of fear and self worth

Whatever

I feel this blog must be opened back up,a safe space of learning and education.

A free space to explore.

A space to not feel like a freak or outsider.

I don't know exactly, but ask, learn and be sure you will never be judged.

I will get you the best information possible as I know it or from those I know are experts of kink.
Oh there will be silly and fun too.

Til next time!

JLE

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Jennifer Lassalle Edwards

Free Short Story I wrote on Literotica

Through the Ages

An aging Sub confides the story of her life to her nurse.

Links to my books: 
Ripped & Twisted

Universal Link: myBook.to/RippedandTwisted

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/mV72Op

Candy & KinK Book Links:

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Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/4AgRQK

PTD1 Links:
UniversalLink: http://getBook.at/JLETheSurrenderofLuella

Everywhere Else: https://www.books2read.com/u/bOrAvg

PTD2 Links:

http://mybook.to/JLEIllusins

https://www.books2read.com/u/mqpXNZ

Snow Globe Dreams - A Magical Short Story
https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07RN17DK7/ref=dbs_a_def_awm_bibl_vppi_i2

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Flexi Felix from Fun Factory! Let's talk anal play.

Fun Factory says Felix is your butt's best friend.
And let's face it, he's just too cute to be scary!
In case you weren't quite sure, yes, it's anal beads.
He was part of my Christmas of Butt Love Extravaganza.
I often recommend beads for early anal play, after you've experimented with tongues and fingers.
There are very small plugs that work too, but beads are a slow work up, flexible, and feel a little less intrusive - especially if you're hesitant about anal play.
We'll discuss scarier looking anal hooks at another time.

He is super soft and flexible with the beads increasing in size the closer you get to his head.
I will state that he is long, a little over a foot, but don't be intimidated by length.
No one ever said that you had to go further than the first bead on his cute tail...to begin.

And as always, lube always aids in the fun.


I've gotten questions about anal play before, the most frequent that people are scared to address is mess. Here is my short answer. Sex often includes bodily secretions, however, anal is usually planned for, or you have an inkling it could be happening. This way, we can take extra time to make sure our hygiene is taken care of. If it is spontaneous, you often know if something is around up there, that's when you can halt play and decide how to approach the block in play from there - either skip it or move on to another activity. In my experience, though, the mess is just a ton of lube.

If your curiosity is piqued about beginning anal play and have questions, I have attached a great article from one of my favorite sites, Kinkly.
Your Top 10 Questions about Anal Play Answered! 

And while you are there, you can check out the Sexy Excerpt from my first novel Ripped & Twisted that they graciously posted!

Couples Massager

I actually received a question about one of these this week.
Luckily, I have experience with couples massagers.

In case you aren't familiar, these were the type I was asked about.

Two popular brands are We-Vibe and Lelo.
(Click the links to see their varieties.)
Hell, I've even seen a version at Walgreens!

These are remote controlled, and now, some can even be controlled by an app on your smartphone too.
Here's the fun thing about these little guys: you wear them during sex.
Yes!
Double the pleasure, double the fun.

It gets slipped on inside of the lady parts. Of course, the outside is for clitorial action, the inside for G fun. Then, your man can come on in to enjoy the vibrations, and you, while he controls the speed of the vibe.
(I would recommend a little lube for smooth entry of both. 😉)

These can also be worn alone, and your partner can control your vibrations whether it be in the next room or out at dinner or out shopping or another state. Get your freak on.

However, it is more fun together.

Afternoon Quickie - Twilight/Violet Wand

Written review link below.

Kinktastic Knicknack - Wand Review

Tails...Bling for your bum

It may or may not be known that I have a fascination with butt plugs.

It should be clear as I stuck one on the cover of my first book, subtly. 

My collection is wide and varied.

Today, I wanted to talk about one of my pretty pony tails.

(We'll get into the bunny tail another day <- disaster with lube)

Aren't they pretty?

And you can do kitty play with them too.

For those who worry, the tail actually is removable from the glass plug, which makes for easy cleaning of both parts.

The glass is very comfortable, and the size of the one I was given is a perfect fit.

Now to those who are skeptical, you don't have to be into pet play to have fun with a tail. 

It can be all about a new sensation play.

The long tail is super soft, and there is definitely something to be said about the swishing of it against your skin, the back of your thighs, against your butt cheeks, even the sides of your thighs or your lower back if you get to swinging it around.
-Which I may or may not have done goofing around with it while enjoying some other attention from a hand doing a few extra smacks, or you know something.

(Not mine, but pretty much looks like this)

And they come so many colors!

https://crystaldelights.com/

Besides, who says everything kinky has to be intense or serious.

These are fun, cute, sexy, and a little quirky.

So, really play when you play. 

It's okay to laugh  while you f%#k after all.

Enjoy your bedroom recreation on another level of fun.

Spanking Paddle (1) - Bottoms Up!

Link

I thought we'd start with a wooden paddle.

It looks a little menacing.

It sounds menacing when it makes impact.

Those holes? They make the 'thwack' sound a little louder.

If delivered with enough force, yes, you can feel the edges of the circles on your skin...

even leave little imprints...or marks that last a few days.

There is a good sting and pain to it. This is more likely due to the fact that there is not much 'give' with a wooden paddle, or snap that more flexible rubber, leather, vinyl paddles have, even though this one cuts wind resistance down. You are more likely to reach your limit with fewer blows than other paddles too. Let's face it, it's a wooden paddle!

You can achieve a good bruising too, depending on how hard you and your partner play, the force they using in delivering your spanks, and the number of  strikes inflicted.

This guy also delivers a warming, burn when used lightly.

Granted, spankings are not incurred for punishment in my house, but this would be a great implement for it. Just the visual brought back too many memories of the nuns in grammar school for me!

Ours walked around with a paddle very much like this one.

Spanking in my house is for pleasure, and though I have had a bumbum that has been turned black and blue, even a little bit of cutting, I can see this wooden paddle used in both forms.

Of course, the pain induced also depends on which body part this paddle is used on. As always, body parts with a little more cushion will not feel as painful as those without. I find the actual butt cheeks are always that good pain (for me). Now, when the backs of the thighs come into play, the pain increases. And a whack on the breasts, just depends, as with force, angle, and so on.

I put up a link to Amazon,  but search around. We procured ours at our friendly neighborhood adult store. 

I'm giving it 5 plugs due to its versatility, quality, and fun.

Just a swingin'

Guess what good little girls get?

Or maybe it's bad girls?

Dirty girls?

Naughty girls?

Or just loved girls?!

That's right!

I believe our office/guest room is slowly becoming a kink room.

Husband said, "It's for your red room."

I said, "Screw a red room. Let's paint it purple and black!"

I foresee hours of fun and giggles.

It should be fun to review this item!

After we clear the space...

I am thinking of digging out the stripper pole too from being stored in the crawl space.

If we're going to have a fun room, we might as well go all out, no?

Edible Body Icing

Who doesn't enjoy a sweet treat?

Who doesn't enjoy some playfulness and fun during sexy time?

In case you didn't know, I am obsessed with candy and kink.

It's so fun to mix the two as well.

You may have heard me mention jelly beans and the strategic placement that can give a whole new meaning to "licking the bean."

I thought I would search out some products specifically made for bedroom recreation.

Who knows, maybe you will find a little gift idea for the upcoming red bum heart holiday.

Link

This set from Amazon comes with three jars and a paint brush in chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry.

Some of the reviews from different stores on Amazon were mixed, but I didn't think they tasted bad at all. They were easy to apply, smelled good and had a good flavor and consistency. 

Link

Now, I have not tried this one yet, but it's available at our friendly neighborhood adult store.

Maybe I'm drawn to it because the packaging and brush are so pretty.

It looks like you could get more precision when using that brush on smaller, more pointy areas or even tighter spaces....

Let me know if you try it out. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks equals...

Implements of PLEASURE!

I have found some beauties lately that I would LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to try out.

I foresee a wish list to be given to someone soon...

although he says that he already thinks I own everything in the store.

Diamonds are a girl's best friend?

No, pleasure is!

Link - Ben Wa Cascade!

Vampire Gloves

Have you seen these?

Better yet, have you tried them?

I have been a little fixated with them since last year.

We first stumbled upon them at our friendly adult store.

We fiddled with them, but I eventually, and unfortunately, told hubs to put them back.

Now, I regret that. I know if I told him that he would gladly go back and purchase them.

From a distance, they look like normal black leather gloves.

Then, you notice they are slightly different.

Go ahead, look closer.

That's right, the fingers and palms are covered in little pins.

This could go in so many directions?!

Gentle to harsh.

Pleasure to Pain...

both of which are good.

I can see sensory play, to a sound spank with these.

My imagination goes wild as what to really expect.

I'm pretty sure that these will eventually wind up in my collection, but until I pull the trigger, please tell me if you have them. How do you play with them? Do you enjoy them? Are they worth it compared to other implements?

Ease your way in...Kinktastic Knicknacks Massage Oil Candles

I realized while going through our supply of 'products' that many may be a little intimidating or even weird to some people who may not have delved that far in yet, but are still interested on a journey into the world of the different.

This is a little item that is sweet, erotic and can always lead to more fun.

I mean, who doesn't love a massage?

Even better, what's wrong with some oiled up skin on skin action afterwards?

Now, I will admit, we have not tried these yet, but we've bought a few, and they are ready and waiting. They seem fun, give ambiance, and play all in one. Doesn't this seem more entertaining than regular old massage oil? -which by the way, there is absolutely nothing wrong with that either.

We were able to pick ours up at our favorite adult store, but they are available all over online: anywhere from Fascinations (we shop this store locally & they have a fantastic rewards plan! Or you can shop with them online) Adam  & Evecarries these as well, and they always throw in free 'gifts' with purchases. Before the advent of easily obtained internet (yes, I'm talking dial up), I may have purchased videos/dvds from there quite a lot. *cough* Even Amazon has these, but I mean why not? They've begun carrying quite a selection of hardware and toys. I've even seen these available with Groupon.

Now, while these may seem quite 'vanilla', these could also be your introduction to a little subtle wax play, you kinky bastards.

As, we have not tried these yet, I will mention that whenever there is sport with additional 'condiments', we always protect our linens with a 'play' sheet that we don't mind getting stained. Because no matter how many products we've encountered that say they do not ruin your linens, half do. Better safe than stained.

And always, this will be posted up to the Kinktastic Knicknacks page with all other product reviews.

Here's one of the product descriptions that I've pulled for you all:

3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle

Candle melts into warm massage oil when lit!

Celebrate your skin and set the mood for an evening of bliss with these sensual massage oil candles! 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candles smell heavenly, and when lit the solid candle melts into warm and silky massage oil. Pour a little into your hand, then rub onto your lover’s skin for a steamy erotic massage that moisturizes and makes you both feel amazing. Choose from subtle Skinny Dip, fruity Guavalava, or sun-kissed Naked In The Woods fragrances.

• 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle
• Scented candle, massage oil, and moisturizer in one
• Made with 8 natural oils including soy, coconut, and jojoba
• Solid candle melts into massage oil when lit
• Feels warm and silky for incredible massage
• Includes Vitamin E
• Great for moisturizing
• Comes in a decorative 6.8oz tin
• Enough for many uses

Why lug along that bulky massage kit? With a 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle, you get everything you need to give a sultry, silky massage all in one easy product.

Start by lighting this sensual massage candle. In just moments, the solid candle will begin to melt into warm massage oil. Since this massage oil candle burns at lower temperatures than standard wax candles, it gives you just the right amount of heat for a wickedly warm massage. Then either pour the massage oil into your hand or spoon out a small amount. Apply this moisturizing formula anywhere to give your lover the massage of a lifetime.

3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candles are available in three unique fragrances. Choose Skinny Dip to subtly scent your massages with hints of vanilla and rose. Or awaken your arousal with the tropical, fruity scent of the Guavalava massage oil candle. Or turn your bedroom into an erotic hideaway with the citrus and cedar-accented Naked In The Woods scented massage oil candle.

Start with just one, or take home all three 3-In-1 Suntouched Massage Candle scents for all your massage oil needs. Each comes in a decorative tin that makes travel easy. These massage oil candles also make great gifts for friends or lovers.

Ingredients:

Skinny Dip: Glycine Soja (Soybean Oil), Cocos Nucifera (Coconut Oil), Cannabis Sativa (Hemp Seed Oil), Prunus Ameniaca (Apricot Oil), Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba Oil), Persea Gratissimia (Avocado Oil), Tocopherol (Vitamin E), Phthalate-free fragrance with essential oils

Guavalava: Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil, Glycine Soja Oil, Parfum, Cannabis Sativa Seed Oil, Persea Gratissimia (Avocado Oil), Prunus Ameniaca Kernel Oil, Hexyl Cinnamal, Benzyl Benzoate, Linalool, Limonene, Benzyl Salicylate, Citronellol, Citral, Simmondsia Chinensis Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera Oil

Naked In The Woods: Hydrogenated Vegetable Oil, Glycine Soja (Soybean) Oil, Fragrance, Cannabis Sativa (Hemp) Seed Oil, Prunus Ameniaca (Apricot) Kernel Oil, Persea Gratissima (Avocado) Oil, Simmondsia Chinensis (Jojoba) Seed Oil, Cocos Nucifera (Coconut) Oil, Tocopherol

Kinktastic Knicknacks

Yep, there's a new review up!

This time I talk about the Twilight Wand (Violet Wand).

So either visit the Kinktastic tab or click above to see what my thoughts are on this electrifying device.

Kinktastic Knicknacks is OPEN!

FINALLY!

I have put up the first post/review on Kinktastic Knicknacks.

All reviews are rated on an anal plug system, five being the highest.

Either click on the page tab or click here:

Take me to the Sex Toys!

Kinktastic Knicknacks - Where to begin?

I am buried in a sea of kinktastic knicknacks and unsure of where to begin?!

Should I start with something super tame so that those who are curious or are just beginning to delve into play have some fun and simple options, say like candles that when burning turn into massage oil? Or should I just go full balls to the wall and go with some hardcore options that are out there?

Maybe I should begin with some items that I've written about in my books?

One thing is for sure, all that I write about here and review here will be from actual experience.

I mean, how do you think I come up with scenes in my books?

(dum,dum,dum) <- sing that in your head!

So perhaps, I should remove any pictures of myself so this doesn't become awkward between us, hahaha. 

Also, everything will be my opinion of items and how they worked out for myself and my partner, meaning my husband. There may be times that I have guest bloggers as well. I'm sure there are things that we may not want to try. It could happen!

Sexual play discussion decisions are HARD because I want to talk about it all!

Feel free to chime in and let me know if there is something specific that you're curious about. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks

Through our random, dirty, yet funny, conversations, my husband and I have 'toyed' with the idea that I should add a section here for review and talk about sex toys.

He claims we own everything at the store we frequent, so they should be given the right to be tested and talked about...and he's always up for finding new scenes and ideas for my books.

*brownchickblackcow*

So from anal beads and plugs, cuffs, dildos, floggers and paddles, gag-balls to spreader bars, fetish wear, vibrators, and so much more, oh my!

We'll have chat and recommendations!

Perhaps some guest bloggers or guinea pigs?

Need I say that the Kinktastic Knicknacks section will be all adult content and conversation, so enter at your own risk...or satisfaction?

My hubs does...