Thursday, February 18, 2016

For Fun! Sex Positions That Double as Exercise!

I love articles like this.
(Link at bottom)
Why not get more bang for your buck?
Or rather fuck?

You may recall the post that I previously wrote:
where I discussed the benefits of exercise not only on your health, but libido as well.
Due to my interest in fitness, my time competing as an amateur, and always striving for a better body, I love linking that interest with, of course, sex!
And why not find and test ways to make our love lives better that do not always involve bought implements of pleasure.

This article impressed me because for each position you get what areas it is working and how to properly execute said position!
How fun is that?
I may be adding even extra cardio to my daily routines!
Why not plan a position a day?
By the way, there are tons of fun books out there that have a position a day for 365 days...
I may own one or two.
I've even found some apps for that!
Check out your google play store for free apps
Here's the link of a quick search:

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Click on the link below
Images such as the one above are on the page.
Click an image and let the fun begin!

And if you're feeling it...
A Cosmo article where a writer banged out 77 positions in 77 Days!

Another from Woman's Day
(I wouldn't necessarily say replace, but an additional fun workout to your gym routine)

But most of all

Bonus article:
(I may try some of her tips - Interval Sex?!)

Wednesday, February 17, 2016

Truth vs. Fiction: actually living it vs. online play

Oh my...
I'm just going to throw it out there.
There are several times a day that I seriously face palm myself.
This is the down side of belonging to so many groups, and I will put myself over the fire, erotic author groups are sometimes the worse.
Now, don't get me wrong.
They are huge fun for games, pics, memes, what if's, etc.
However, if there are serious discussions, I often, yes, face palm, smack my head, I have even literally smacked my head down into a tabletop reading posts.

If one is bringing up discussion in jest, AWESOME.
I am totally down with the fun, silly, ridiculous scenarios.
Bring on the irony, smut, double innuendos, story time!

Then, there are those who want to get into frank discussions, flex their 'knowing' arms...
and they are just coming off as vag wash = douches.
Now, sadly, I feel awful for these ladies (and sometimes men) who fall for their talk.
Everything these Don Juans of Kink and BDSM say and do send up signals.
Danger! Danger, Will Robinson!

I feel sad for these folks. I have tried to intervene only to be bashed.

Now, granted, I have not had a full on D/s relationship, I have spent many years among Doms and Dommes. I have witnessed, observed, studied. I  have seen things in real life that many only read about.
I have switched to play, to learn, to see what I liked.
I may have a little masochist in me... maybe more than a little.

I am DEEP into kink. I am still curious and want to learn and experience more. I find Master/Slave relationships absolutely beyond fascinating!
I know people in poly relationships. 
Oh my god... I am HIGHLY into this...well, hearing and learning about it, lol.
But you know that whole sandwich fantasy thing.
I have long term friends who swing.
If you have followed me, you know I have stripped, burlesqued, gotten naked purely for fun, have no worries with that.
I think women are absolutely wonderful, sexy, and I lust after some and to be some of them.
I am not ashamed of anything that I have done.
I do not consider it wrong or right...just me.

I have never, nor will ever claim to know all or end all of anything.
I do continue to explore, talk, educate, and study.
I LOVE it all, never wavering from a serious discussion.

And then tonight, I see yet another so called Dom/Master spurting off his views.
And bad sub/slave that I would want to be makes me want to bash him with a baseball bat.
Now that's MY Domme side (I use that loosely, because I really am not at all, just bitchy), because I call bullshit on your ways.

But being me... I make a snarky comment, hoping to be passive in my judgement.
Then, I think that me judging anyone is awful. 

I am super lucky in the relationship that I am and have been in now.

Maybe, I am just trying to say, please, do not trust too lightly.
Study anything and anyone beforehand.

Do not get your heart invested.

And if you want a more in depth view, please visit this website.
His posts are so highly informative!
A Master's Viewpoint of the BDSM World

Friday, February 12, 2016


Since this is my 69th post, I thought it would be fitting to talk about what else?!
The 69 Position!

So, I hope you realize that we are going to get a little graphic.
After all, this is adult talk!

I would think the majority of us love oral, giving and receiving.
Isn't it better though when you don't have to take turns?
Mutual Oral Play & Satisfaction
When you can both achieve that blow up at the same time, or virtually the same time?
Collapse at the same time and cuddle up for the night, or morning, or afternoon.

You know what I'm talking about.
At least, I hope that you have all experienced having to stop pleasing your partner in order to squeeze your legs around your partner's head, ride their face and squeal with absolute delight.
Or when you feel as though you just can't take it anymore and try to pull away, but they grasp your ass tighter, holding you there until you cum all over them.
I meant that for men too, get on top and ride her face while you're going after that peach.
I know that woman on top is the go to, but ladies if you like thing perhaps a little rougher or to give up some control, let him get on top. Just make sure that you have a signal to let them know if they are getting down too hard, or you can't breathe because they are plowing you so deep in the heat of the moment.
It happens when they cannot see your face, lol. 
Don't freak out, I meant that to be humorous too.

Don't think that 69 has to be boring either.
Either one of you can be on top, hell, you can both be on your side.
You can roll around during...

I know there are ways for suspended 69, but I haven't made it that far yet!
Have you?
Tell, tell!

Have you tried a tiny bullet vibrator specifically made for oral?
They are not only for women. Give that a shot on your man.
If you dare, both have one for that specialist of positions...
Holy fireworks!

This is also a great time to play with flavored creams, edible paints. Add a little flavor to the dining situation. Ice or temperature toys can also come into play here too.
You do not have to spend your whole time in this position purely licking and sucking - though there is nothing wrong with that at all.

Also, don't be afraid to explore further while you're down there. Give a little lick and nibble to surrounding areas, thighs, legs, stomach, further down if you dare. Let your fingers do some walking too. You can always incorporate anal play into this scenario, on either part whoever is or may be into it. Or keep an implement for that nearby, ie. plug, dildo, beads, whatever.

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If you haven't found a Valentine's treat for your loved one yet, perhaps a little 69 would be the perfect gift on Sunday.
And if you have never tried it, PLEASE give it a whirl...or two or three!

I am adding some links to informative sites just about this lovely, satisfying position.
There were some great ideas and information in these pages, and none of them are porn!

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Wednesday, February 10, 2016


I think generally when we hear 'threesome' most people automatically go to F/M/F.
And that's all well and good, women are hot, beautiful, and soft...but what about M/F/M?
See, this is what fascinates me even more.
Is it more taboo because it scares two straight guys to have another ween out and about in such close proximity? 
Let's face it, there are positions where the two guys could never even touch.
So, what's the big hold up?

I mean, think about it. What woman wouldn't want two men completely obsessing over her?
And the possibilities?

If you know anything about me, especially from my writing, this is the ONE thing that I would love to explore and have never had an option to try.
But, if I have to dream, then, I will just keep fantasizing.
Thank you tumblr...

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

Edible Body Icing

Who doesn't enjoy a sweet treat?
Who doesn't enjoy some playfulness and fun during sexy time?
In case you didn't know, I am obsessed with candy and kink.
It's so fun to mix the two as well.
You may have heard me mention jelly beans and the strategic placement that can give a whole new meaning to "licking the bean."

I thought I would search out some products specifically made for bedroom recreation.
Who knows, maybe you will find a little gift idea for the upcoming red bum heart holiday.

This set from Amazon comes with three jars and a paint brush in chocolate, vanilla, and strawberry.
Some of the reviews from different stores on Amazon were mixed, but I didn't think they tasted bad at all. They were easy to apply, smelled good and had a good flavor and consistency. 

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Now, I have not tried this one yet, but it's available at our friendly neighborhood adult store.
Maybe I'm drawn to it because the packaging and brush are so pretty.
It looks like you could get more precision when using that brush on smaller, more pointy areas or even tighter spaces....
Let me know if you try it out. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks equals...

Implements of PLEASURE!

I have found some beauties lately that I would LOVE, LOVE, LOVE to try out.
I foresee a wish list to be given to someone soon...
although he says that he already thinks I own everything in the store.
Diamonds are a girl's best friend?
No, pleasure is!