Spanking Paddle (1) - Bottoms Up!

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I thought we'd start with a wooden paddle.

It looks a little menacing.

It sounds menacing when it makes impact.

Those holes? They make the 'thwack' sound a little louder.

If delivered with enough force, yes, you can feel the edges of the circles on your skin...

even leave little imprints...or marks that last a few days.

There is a good sting and pain to it. This is more likely due to the fact that there is not much 'give' with a wooden paddle, or snap that more flexible rubber, leather, vinyl paddles have, even though this one cuts wind resistance down. You are more likely to reach your limit with fewer blows than other paddles too. Let's face it, it's a wooden paddle!

You can achieve a good bruising too, depending on how hard you and your partner play, the force they using in delivering your spanks, and the number of  strikes inflicted.

This guy also delivers a warming, burn when used lightly.

Granted, spankings are not incurred for punishment in my house, but this would be a great implement for it. Just the visual brought back too many memories of the nuns in grammar school for me!

Ours walked around with a paddle very much like this one.

Spanking in my house is for pleasure, and though I have had a bumbum that has been turned black and blue, even a little bit of cutting, I can see this wooden paddle used in both forms.

Of course, the pain induced also depends on which body part this paddle is used on. As always, body parts with a little more cushion will not feel as painful as those without. I find the actual butt cheeks are always that good pain (for me). Now, when the backs of the thighs come into play, the pain increases. And a whack on the breasts, just depends, as with force, angle, and so on.

I put up a link to Amazon,  but search around. We procured ours at our friendly neighborhood adult store. 

I'm giving it 5 plugs due to its versatility, quality, and fun.

Kinktastic Knicknacks - Where to begin?

I am buried in a sea of kinktastic knicknacks and unsure of where to begin?!

Should I start with something super tame so that those who are curious or are just beginning to delve into play have some fun and simple options, say like candles that when burning turn into massage oil? Or should I just go full balls to the wall and go with some hardcore options that are out there?

Maybe I should begin with some items that I've written about in my books?

One thing is for sure, all that I write about here and review here will be from actual experience.

I mean, how do you think I come up with scenes in my books?

(dum,dum,dum) <- sing that in your head!

So perhaps, I should remove any pictures of myself so this doesn't become awkward between us, hahaha. 

Also, everything will be my opinion of items and how they worked out for myself and my partner, meaning my husband. There may be times that I have guest bloggers as well. I'm sure there are things that we may not want to try. It could happen!

Sexual play discussion decisions are HARD because I want to talk about it all!

Feel free to chime in and let me know if there is something specific that you're curious about. 

Kinktastic Knicknacks

Through our random, dirty, yet funny, conversations, my husband and I have 'toyed' with the idea that I should add a section here for review and talk about sex toys.

He claims we own everything at the store we frequent, so they should be given the right to be tested and talked about...and he's always up for finding new scenes and ideas for my books.

*brownchickblackcow*

So from anal beads and plugs, cuffs, dildos, floggers and paddles, gag-balls to spreader bars, fetish wear, vibrators, and so much more, oh my!

We'll have chat and recommendations!

Perhaps some guest bloggers or guinea pigs?

Need I say that the Kinktastic Knicknacks section will be all adult content and conversation, so enter at your own risk...or satisfaction?

My hubs does...