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Hi. I'm your friendly neighborhood purveyor of smut.

I started this blog to promote my books, but realized it would be much better suited  to answer questions, educate, and have fun.

I write erotica, BDSM, kink, romance.

I live it too. I think that gives my books a little something special.

I realized that this blog would be beneficial for so many after spending time in groups on Facebook, and women didn't think what they have read in books could really happen.

I kept voicing, "But it can." "Yes, I've done that." "We own those." Etc.

I don't hide behind a pen name.

What you see is what you get.

Besides that, I just generally believe in pursuing life.

Given the chance, I try just about anything.

I have been in roller derby.

I was a burlesque performer from 2007 until 2013 when I turned 40.

I used to do some fetish/alt/goth modeling too.

I have competed in fitness competitions in both the Fitness & Physique Categories. That I haven't given up on yet, but it takes tons of time, discipline, and of course, money, so I have to plan that more precisely. That being said, I'm a huge fitness buff.

I truly want to be a free spirit, but I'm a worry wart.

I judge, but don't want to, so I'm working on that.

I rant, but then regret it.

I bottle things up and explode when the last straw is broken.

I am nowhere near perfect. I never claimed to be.

I want to inspire others to try what they dream of, pursue dreams.

Couples Massager

I actually received a question about one of these this week.
Luckily, I have experience with couples massagers.

In case you aren't familiar, these were the type I was asked about.

Two popular brands are We-Vibe and Lelo.
(Click the links to see their varieties.)
Hell, I've even seen a version at Walgreens!

These are remote controlled, and now, some can even be controlled by an app on your smartphone too.
Here's the fun thing about these little guys: you wear them during sex.
Yes!
Double the pleasure, double the fun.

It gets slipped on inside of the lady parts. Of course, the outside is for clitorial action, the inside for G fun. Then, your man can come on in to enjoy the vibrations, and you, while he controls the speed of the vibe.
(I would recommend a little lube for smooth entry of both. 😉)

These can also be worn alone, and your partner can control your vibrations whether it be in the next room or out at dinner or out shopping or another state. Get your freak on.

However, it is more fun together.

An automatic spice up.

Things don't always have to be kink in the bedroom.

Sure, we love that too, but it's not involved 100% of the time.

Lingerie.

It's such an easy way to spice up a night, yet how many times do we wear it?

I'm guilty.

I have a drawer full, sweet to raunchy. Some even still has tags on it.

I couldn't tell you the last time I put some on though.

Why not?

I couldn't even tell you, lol.

This is especially fun for those of us in relationships that have been over a decade.

Let's face it. We become complacent. Even our bra and panties become more mundane.

We know we don't always match.

Lingerie automatically makes you feel sexier, even just a fancy new bra and panty set.

Your mate will know it's time for some action.

It's a subtle way to initiate the romance, sexy time, and at times, your man/woman will like that.

Why should they always initiate?

That alone is a tiny way to spice things up.

Plus, you will just look hot as hell. 

It doesn't have to be this intricate either. This would be for more 'play' time rather than just a night of nookie, but hell if that isn't fun too.

So, why not pull out some special lingerie tonight?

It's like unwrapping a present, and you're the gift, but you both get the pleasure.

Naked Thanksgiving!

I guess this would be more under the Candy part of me, as I find it sweet.

A friend of mine and her husband have a Thanksgiving Tradition:

Naked Thanksgiving!

Yes, they spend the day celebrating at their home naked.

I thought this was a fab idea.

I told her that I would probably wear an apron while cooking because, let's just say that I've had some incidents cooking naked before, hahaha.

And as I was looking for a new apron online, I've discovered that naked cooking is apparently becoming a trend!

(not me, lol)

Meet one of the naked chefs!

http://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/meet-real-naked-chef-woman-5344647

I've even found a youtube channel, Cooking Naked, as well, and I thought this recipe may be fitting for after Thanksgiving. 

Perhaps, this holiday tradition could become all the rage?

So, tomorrow morning after I wake, get the fire in the woodstove raging, and shower and apply some makeup, I may just go about our holiday in nothing but my knee high socks and my apron when needed.
It was 18 degrees here this morning! I need to have a wee bit of warmth before stripping down!

This may be me, but who cares!
Maybe I'll take pics and post them 😜

Hope you have a Happy (maybe naked) Thanksgiving!

Sexy Fun Time.

Have you seen this?

Random Sex Position Generator.

How fun is that?

And how cute are their images?!

I had been thinking of outlining a fun Sex Challenge for the Holidays.

You've seen them.

Like this:

But dang, it seems like then it would become a chore.

That's when I stumbled onto that fun little Sex Position Generator.

Maybe when getting ready for sexy fun time, you could click this and try it out.

I also have a few of those dice games with an action and a body part.

Anywho, just some thoughts on spicing it up on the fly!

King of Kink! Al Daltrey's Pleasure, Pain Or Purpose Book 3: Purpose Release Blitz!

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A Little Silly FYI

It's been over two years, since I have lost padding.

In fact, my tush has gained padding over that time.

In the last few months, I have been resuming my old fitness regime, thus my booty is losing the fluff.

There is a definite increased sting as you lose fat on your a$$.

Just saying...

I forgot how that feels over the past few years.

I'm not complaining, just pointing out that the pain is escalated without any new toys!

;)

And I don't know about you, but it does!

Or if I am completely stressed out, being grabbed, bent over, bottom exposed and spanked on the spur immediately relieves some of my cranky, anxiety and stress.

It's only when I'm in the middle of cooking or bent with my head in the oven that I resist a bit...it's precarious, LOL.